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NRL News
Page 18
July/August 2009
Volume 36
Issue 7-8
Justice Loves Babies, and You Will Love Darlene and Danielle
By Dave Andrusko
Almost
exactly a year ago, “Justice Loves Babies” was lovingly embraced by
pro-life audiences. The flood of responses puts that interview/book
review among the most warmly received stories of all time. Not hard
to understand why.
Written
by twin sisters Darlene and Danielle Wibeto, this pro-life
children’s book is almost as kind and generous and loving as the
young women themselves. Our readers sensed that, and inundated my
inbox with responses, both when the story appeared in Today’s News &
Views and later when it ran in National Right to Life News.
(You can
order Justice Loves Babies at Amazon.com, or at
http://www.fotb.com/Store/Products/1000011762/All_Products/Books/General/Childrens_Resources/Justice_Loves_Babies.aspx.)
In June I
renewed acquaintances with the Azusa Pacific University graduates at
the National Right to Life Convention in Charlotte. I interviewed
them at their booth and attended their workshop.
It is
impossible not to feel better after talking with the 24-year-olds,
so deep is their faith and so passionate is their conviction that
God gave them this book to help raise a generation that knows that
life is precious and a gift from the Author of Life.
When I
wrote about the 37-page book last July, I thought I pretty much knew
the full story. Boy, was I mistaken! As miraculous as the
composition (and eventual publishing) was, that is only part of the
story which gives new meaning to the term “Godincidences.”
The word
“abortion” never appears in their book, beautifully illustrated by
Sarah Atkinson. But the story of a little African-American boy named
Justice, who is eagerly awaiting the birth of his baby sister,
Destiny, provides children with the raw materials out of which to
build a lifelong commitment to treasure life and to understand that
life begins in a mother’s womb.
When we
first met, Danielle explained how the idea of writing a children’s
book about abortion came to her. She was sitting in her Children’s
Literature class at Azusa Pacific University and they were
discussing the enormous impact children’s books can have on
youngsters.
“God put
this book on my heart,” Danielle said. She immediately knew not only
the characters and the basic storyline but also the sure knowledge
that Darlene was to write the book.
They both
fasted, Darlene said. “I woke up from my sleep five nights in a row
and wrote the book.” That was September 2005.
The plot
is deceptively simple but immensely powerful. Justice’s mother is
pregnant and she tells him that his baby sister, Destiny, “is
getting ready to come out any day now.” His dad is a doctor and will
deliver Destiny. “Justice’s dad always tells him that each baby is
one of God’s dreams.” Before he goes to bed Justice prays with his
parents for Destiny and “while they pray, Justice puts his hand on
Destiny.”
That
night he has a nightmare and wakes up crying. He tells his mother
that he dreamt “someone was trying to steal Destiny out of your
belly.”
That
“someone” was a man dressed the same way his physician daddy
dresses, Justice explains, but “he took them out of their bellies
and never gave them the chance to live.” Frightened, Justice asks
for reassurance that his mother will not allow anyone to take
Destiny.
She
assures him she will protect Destiny but confirms that “not all
babies get the chance to live like Destiny does.” His mother tells
him “never stop praying for the babies.”
Unable to
sleep Justice prays to God, telling him that he loves his little
unborn sister and asks God to “save the babies.”
The next
morning his dad tells him it is time. Justice leaps from his bed.
“I’m going to help bring Destiny into the world!” he says. Soon,
“Justice will be holding Destiny.”
The
Wibetos conclude the book with a dedication to the parents who have
lost a child to abortion. They told me it is their hope that the
book will “bring healing to parents who’ve experienced the pain of
abortion.”
What I
didn’t fully realize was how it seemed as if the book was destined
never to see the light of day. Darlene and Danielle are the first to
tell you they are not marketing whizzes, and for the better part of
over two years it seemed as if the book would never find a publisher
or, once it had, would never roll off the presses.
As I
listened to a CD of workshop, more than once a chill ran up and down
my spine. Clearly this was the “rest of the story.”
Darlene
explained that at a key juncture the girls were separated (Danielle
had already graduated) and Darlene grew discouraged.
“There
was a moment where I was about to give up on the whole thing,”
Darlene told the workshop. “I was saying ‘Lord, Lord, give me one
reason to push this book further because it’s such a burden.’ I’m so
tired of it. I just want to rip it up and throw it into the ocean. I
remember saying this to him, ‘just give me a reason.’”
At that
point, the CD began to loop. Over and over again, you hear Darlene
say, “it’s such a burden.’ I’m so tired of it. I just want to rip it
up and throw it into the ocean. I remember saying this to him, ‘just
give me a reason.’”
[Okay,
Lord, I said, I get the message.]
Shortly
afterwards, they were at their parents’ house for Mother’s Day, and
their mother began to cry. “What’s wrong?” they asked.
“She
tells us they had never planned on telling us, but that they had had
an abortion before we were born,” before they were saved, Darlene
said. “When we heard that it ripped our hearts like a dagger. ...
Our parents had gone through years and years and years of pain.”
Although
Darlene did not explicitly make the connection for the audience, it
was clear to see why they now knew Justice Loves Babies needed to be
written and published and distributed.
There was
a lengthy series of “Godincidences” and especially lessons in
timing. Darlene talked about how they found their illustrator. They
knew nothing about Sarah and she knew nothing about the book.
Sarah
arrived an hour late to their meeting, her little baby in tow. (Her
babysitter had been unable to make it.) When she read the book,
Sarah wept and wept and quickly agreed to illustrate Justice Loves
Babies.
Then
there is the fact that the book was originally scheduled to be
printed July 7, 2007, but wasn’t. Then it was to be the very last
day of 2007, but it was delayed yet again by a bomb threat at the
printing company.
So when
was this book whose central characters are an African-American
family finally printed? The following month—to be exact, the day
when the nation commemorated Dr. Martin Luther King’s birth!
“He was a
voice” for African-Americans, Darlene said. “We want to be a voice”
for unborn children.
As I
listened to the CD, I marveled at how Darlene read their story with
directness and such an almost trembling urgency that it pierces your
heart. Once again, I was struck by how these two young women possess
a gift that I have rarely seen surpassed. You listen to them, and
nothing becomes more important than saving the lives of unborn
babies.
Besides
ordering the book itself (see above), you can order their workshop
CD by calling either (202) 378-8842 or (202) 626-8809. And, yes, the
looping problem was only in the initial duplication. |