A Deeply Disturbing Portrait of
Parental Neglect and Abandonment -- Part
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Since it is unlikely I will have the time to
read "Abortion and Life" any time soon, I will have to rely on
one or more of the swooning reviews that laud author and film
maker Jennifer Baumgardner's ongoing campaign to "destigmatize"
abortion. My guess is that the book cover tells you everything
you need to know.
You see two women, arms around each other's
waist. One smiling woman is wearing a shirt which reads, "I had
an abortion." Her left hand rests on the abdomen of a pregnant
woman who appears to be looking off to the side at someone else.
The message? Presumably, life or death, cradle or curettage, we
affirm each other's "choice."
But I understood the strategy, the oldest in
the book. Flaunt what most people find, at a minimum, moral
unsettling, and, over time, the edge of disapproval will wear
off. This in-your-face strategy went mainstream, so to speak,
when the largest abortion provider in the world, Planned
Parenthood, started producing the tee-shirts.
Anyway, according to a review by Deirdre
Fulton that appears in the Phoenix, an alternative
newspaper, the "pro-choice" movement has stagnated, in no small
part because many members "still shy away from telling personal
abortion stories, finding it more comfortable to talk about
reproductive rights as intangible concepts rather than concrete
situations."
Baumgardner's three-part campaign included
producing the first batch of these "wildly popular [and
controversial]" tee-shirts, a 2005 movie, "I Had an Abortion,"
and the new book.
"This month, Akashic Books released
Abortion and Life, in which Baumgardner and photographer
Tara Todras-Whitehill translate the ideas (and some of the
narratives) from I Had An Abortion into print," Fulton
tells us. There are 14 "narratives" and each "is accompanied by
a photograph of that woman wearing the black 'I had an abortion'
T-shirt.'"
Fulton offers one very interesting
insight/admission. It's risky (my word) for a "pro-choice" woman
to be "ambivalent" about her abortion ("she would seem too
vulnerable") or cavalier ("too callous"). So how to walk the
tightrope? Fulton quotes from the "mission letter" for the film.
"In encouraging women to tell their stories,
we hope to demonstrate that women might have complex, or even
painful, experiences with abortion, but they are still grateful
to have had access to the procedure -- very, very grateful."
The crux of the strategy is the assumption
that a "narrative"--a story--"is not a debate, it doesn't have
sides. Unlike an argument or a slogan, a story can be as complex
as a woman's life."
But this is silly, in the extreme, when all
the stories have the same moral. The woman may say she felt
nothing, or she may have described it as "physically unbearable,
emotionally difficult," but the conclusion is always the same: a
variation of "If there is a baby in here, it's not
staying..."
Obviously the reader only has the sample
Fulton chooses for her review. But consider these three
examples.
The woman who talked about abortion #1 being
"physically unbearable, emotionally difficult" is just fine by
abortion #2. Another talks about "My abortions [plural] were not
morally or emotionally wrenching for me. I was just relieved
each time I had the procedure." The third woman ("co-author on
two previous feminist books") aborts two of her triplets.
Aside from bucking up one another's spirits,
what would these "narratives" say to those who have no firm
position on abortion?
This kind of laying bare what is, after all,
the ultimate betrayal of parental responsibility may be a
"feminist act" to Fulton, but to most others it is a deeply
disturbing portrait of neglect and abandonment.
Please send your comments to
daveandrusko@hotmail.com.
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