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Jean Garton: Pro-Life Convert
-- Part Two of
Two
Amazing what you find when you clear off
the top of your desk. Not only did I find a tremendous resource, the
discovery reminded me of the powerful story that I had almost forgotten.
Those of you whom I lovingly refer to as
fellow pro-life veterans easily can recall two of our most prominent
converts. One is Dr. Bernard Nathanson, whose 1979 book "Aborting America"
was a revealing glimpse at a man whom at that point had taken a few steps on
a journey which culminated in a full turnabout on abortion.
Once the operator of the largest abortion
mill in the world, Nathanson eventually became a pro-life stalwart and
creator of the immensely powerful video, "The Silent Scream." More recently,
Norma McCorvey--the "Jane Roe" of the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision--has
embraced the cause of life.
But not as many people, even inside the
pro-life family, know the history of another pro-life convert. She is the
renowned author of "Who Broke the Baby?" one of the two books that turned me
(and no doubt countless others) from an instinctive pro-lifer into pro-life
activist.
That author is Jean Garton, the founder
and president emeritus of the Lutherans for Life, and a friend of many, many
years. To be honest I hadn't thought of Jean's story for years until I
discovered the fall 2007 edition of Lutheran Woman's Quarterly on my desk
under a stack of papers.
In "A Celebration of Life," Jean recounts
her life and how she and her husband (and three children) struggled when her
husband decided to become a Concordia Seminary student… at age 40. "We
arrived at the school with a healthy bank account--enough to see us through
four years of training--and with three healthy children," she wrote.
"However, that was not how we were to leave the school."
Their oldest, Dale, contracted a rare
blood disease and was not expected to live beyond her teen years. Their
resources almost completely gone, were it not for the generosity of a
neighboring church, they would not have had anything to eat.
Then, four years later, seminary
preparation complete, hardly had her husband become pastor of his first
church when Jean found herself pregnant…at age 40.
This struck Jean as grossly unfair. "Our
three children were finally in school, and my husband was finally out of
school," she writes. "It was my time now, wasn't it?"
Although this was prior to Roe, there
were plenty of slogans that told Jean that it was her "right" to abort and
that, indeed, "Every child a Wanted Child." Unable to find a doctor to
perform an abortion, she set her jaw and resolved to get through the
pregnancy until it "terminated" itself in birth.
"I joined an activist group seeking to
promote abortion-on-demand," she writes. "I spent six months studying the
abortion issue from numerous perspectives in an attempt to find confirmation
that abortion, as its advocates claimed, helps women, doesn't take a human
life, and is a choice God allows us to make."
How did she "come out the other end of
that exhaustive research"? "[W]ith a changed heart and mind and with a
commitment to be a voice in defense of the unseen, unheard, unborn child."
Donn, her "caboose," proved to be a
tremendous joy, she writes, and "in addition, I was blessed with the
forgiveness this straying sheep [Jean] so desperately needed."
In 1979, this almost aborted little boy
accompanied the Gartons as they traveled to a Lutherans for Life convention.
The State Police tracked them down, and they learned that their son, Dean,
had been murdered in Dallas.
"Dean, our first born, our planned son,
our wanted son, dead, while seated between us bringing great comfort was
Donn, our second son, our unplanned son, our unwanted son, whom I had wanted
dead."
And then a "most wonderful surprise" from
God. Her daughter, Dale, not only had survived, but even as the family was
struggling with Dean's death, found she was pregnant with triplets!
"From the moment those little babies
entered our lives--while still within the womb--the healing of our family
began," Jean writes, "and the pain of Dean's death was gradually replaced
with the celebration of new life."
And then a paragraph fraught with emotion
and meaning.
"It is often said that life is full of
twists and turns, but I have found that it sometimes goes in circles," she
writes. "Originally an abortion advocate, I came full circle to become a
pro-life advocate."
Likewise--and "most amazingly," that
"unwanted pregnancy became a very wanted child."
Jean's article has not yet been archived
on the site of the Lutheran Woman's Quarterly. When it is, I shall notify
you immediately.
Part One --
Obama "Brought Back to Earth"? Hardly
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