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"Not a Saint, Just a Parent"
-- One of Three
Editor's note. I'm back in the saddle
after some minor eye surgery last week. Please bear with me as I scrub off
some of the rust that has accumulated. Parts
Two and Three today deal with the
pending vote on abortion legislation in Great Britain. Please send any
comments to
daveandrusko@hotmail.com..
Read the following two passages
back-to-back and see if you don't shake your head in amazement as just how
dishonest is the impression left. They come from the Irish Independent
newspaper yesterday, under the headline "Hospitals refusing to give advice
on abortion."
"A number of hospitals have refused to
give couples information on abortion procedures after having diagnosed
several women carrying abnormal foetuses. Distressed couples are contacting
the Irish Family Planning Association (IFPA) with complaints that they are
being 'abandoned' by Irish heath services after being given the traumatic
news. …
"Ms. [Rosie] Toner [director of the
IFPA] expressed her concern that couples who have been told their baby will
die at birth are becoming further distressed at their hospital's refusal to
provide information on a termination."
Ireland does not have the
ultra-liberal abortion law found on the books in the United Kingdom--England
and Wales. The complaint is that the hospitals are not "supportive in giving
information to couples to travel [to the UK for an abortion]."
No specifics are given, but you know
that the percentage of babies whose prenatal diagnosis is that the child
will die at birth or shortly after is minuscule compared to the number of
babies who will be aborted because the parents have been told the child has
a disability, primarily Down syndrome. The dishonesty--the embrace of
eugenic abortion smuggled in under the cover of dying babies-- is both
nothing unusual and disheartening.
For an honest appraisal, I turn you
over to bioethicist Wesley Smith. He has another outstanding piece online
about "Politically Correct Eugenics." [www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/014/915cuzel.asp]
Near the end Smith quotes from an
outstanding article written a while back by British sportswriter Simon
Barnes.
Barnes's op-ed appeared in the Times
of London and recounted how "At the hospital, when they discovered on the
scan that Down's syndrome was a possibility, they very kindly offered to
kill him for us." The Barnes decided otherwise. (We wrote about Barnes, his
wife, Cindy, and their child, Eddie, at
www.nrlc.org/news_and_views/November06/nv112906part1.html)
"If you find the idea of love
uncomfortable," Barnes wrote, "or sentimental or best-not-talked-about or
existing only in the midst of a passionate love affair, then you will find
problems with what I am writing. I am writing of love not as a matter of
grand passions, or as high-falutin' idealism, or as religion. I am writing
about love as the stuff that makes the processes of human life happen: the
love that moves the sun and other stars, which is also the love that makes
the toast and other snacks. . . .
"What is it like to have Down's
syndrome? How terrible is it? Is it terrible at all? It depends, I suppose,
on how well loved you are. . . . I can't say I'm glad that Eddie has Down's
syndrome, or that I would wish him to suffer in order to charm me and fill
me with giggles. But no, I don't want his essential nature changed. Good
God, what a thought. It would be as much a denial of myself as a denial of
my son. . . . I am here to tell you that Down's syndrome is not an
insupportable horror for either the sufferer or the parents. I'll go
further: human beings are not better off without Down's syndrome."
It is important and symbolic that
Barnes headlined his opinion piece, "I am not a saint, just a parent." If
you want to read an account that will raise you up the same way the article
from the Irish Independent would bring any morally sentiment human being
down, go to
www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/article633433.ece.
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