How's the old saying go? Good things come in threes? Well, actually,
when it comes to the entertainment field, good things are coming in
bunches.
What do pro-lifers look for in a film, or a play, or a television
program? Obviously, we'd prefer the right ending, one in which the
gravity of abortion sinks in, and a woman--and hopefully the baby's
father--together choose life.
But we understand that death chosen over life is a fact of life, in
real life and in dramatic presentations as well. So our bottom line is
that the case for the humanity of the unborn is made--and occasionally
the father is not portrayed as an unfeeling jerk.
Enter the February 8 episode of NBC's "Friday Night Lights," a series
that has habitually been on the precipice. Why? Largely because of
people like me, who loved the show in the beginning but who, for
whatever reason, stopped watching.
I was alerted to the unplanned pregnancy element of last Friday's
show by a colleague. She told me this was the last episode put together
before the writer's strike. So "Friday Night Lights" is in double
jeopardy.
What makes the program even more poignant is that what the young
woman--Erin -- will do is left dangling. We can't tell from her
expression whether this 18-year-old will abort.
A constant storyline that began with the first episode is of the star
quarterback who is gravely injured and left a paraplegic. Fast-forward a
couple of years: That he could have fathered a child is, as Jason put
it, a "miracle."
What makes dramas like this so powerful--and great television-- is
that many of the elements that surround any real-life crisis pregnancy
are addressed, often with brutal candor. For example, when Jason tells a
friend that Erin is pregnant, his friend responds like many immature
young men would--degrading Erin and mocking Jason's concern.
Jason's first attempt to affirm that they should have the baby goes
very badly. It's all heart and no brains on his part. But his second
conversation is remarkable:
Jason: All I'm asking you is to not make a rash decision, to just
think about it, for a little bit.
Erin: I have thought about it, every which way. It's so weird, I
already feel my body changing. I've got cramps, and I'm tired all the
time. I mean, it sucks.
Jason: I understand what you're saying. But it makes sense, think
about it. There's a little, there's a little baby in there. A little
person's in there, with little fingers, little toes, a little heartbeat,
you know? He's got his eyes all scrunched up, he's in a ball…maybe he's
got a wee-wee, maybe he doesn't. I mean, aren't you a little curious?
You've got a human life in there.
Erin: You're not one of those people who blows up clinics, are
you? [laughter]
Jason: No, I'm just saying…that little person could be the next
Bill Gates. Or the next Peyton Manning… Or…
Erin: Or Britney Spears…with a learning disorder. Like that's not
redundant.
Jason: No way. Not on my watch. Look, Erin…I understand. This
right here… this could be the most important decision you'll ever make.
And if you choose to give this a chance, I will be there with you…every
day. You won't be the only one living with it.. 100%, anything you need,
anything you ask, I will be there.
Erin: Really?
Jason: Just give it some time, give it a shot. Please. Pretty,
pretty, please. Give it a chance.
Between conversations, Jason talks with the football coach who is the
series' star. Coach Taylor is not some articulate pro-life spokesman,
but a regular guy who, like most men, readily admits he knows next to
nothing about women.
But after telling Jason "I can't give you any answers," and adding,
"You have to make the answers," Coach Taylor tells the young man, "I can
tell you [this]--your children and the mother of your children are the
two most important things in your life."
Amen, brother.
You can watch the episode if you go to the NBC website at
www.nbc.com/Friday_Night_Lights.