Behaving Like Adults
Part One of Three
By Dave Andrusko
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I
especially enjoy opinion pieces that frankly talk about what's
beneath the surface. So much of what we read is (understandably)
based on a set of assumptions that rarely get challenged because
they are rarely stated.
Not so with "Normalising
abortion ignores women's needs," an op-ed by Bonnie Lander
Johnson that ran last week in the Guardian newspaper. (www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/may/26/abortion-marie-stopes-women).
She puts her argument out on the table, in the process
implicitly challenging pro-abortionists to lay out theirs.
The summary, presumably
written by the Guardian, that begins the piece is quite good:
"The Marie Stopes advert[isement] commercialises abortion and
denies women the right to be treated like responsible adults."
The advertisement alluded
to is one we talked about last week (www.nrlc.org/NewsToday/AbortionAdsUK.html)
Stopes is the heavy pro-abortion hitter in England and
apparently decided it was now time to advertise its abortion
"services " on television.
They knew there'd be some
blowback, so they tried some rhetorical tricks, saying the word
"abortion" is never used and, besides, the public's "awareness"
needed to be raised. Both are so silly even some
pro-abortionists balked.
Johnson's op-ed goes to
issues that are infrequently discussed, so it was no surprise
that online responders tore into her. But look at how central
are the concerns she raises.
First she points to one
defender who said the language of the Stopes ads is "normalis[ing]
free and frank discussion of reproductive issues." Johnson
tartly responds that the ad simply shows three women in
isolation, worried about their pregnancy, followed by the
company's 24-hour hotline--hardly a real discussion.
Johnson was hammered for
writing that a real discussion would involve (gasp!) "partners,
friends, family and healthcare professionals, not [women] living
alone with their 'problem.'" [I supposed we can't expect an
abortion organization to talk about other "options," as Johnson
suggests Stopes should in its ad, but we can hope.]
Johnson suggests something
pro-life veterans in this country vividly remember--that the
"liberalization" of abortion was (supposedly) not intended to
introduce abortion on demand. But it has, in both nations. She
asks in effect, is this what anybody wanted? (Answer: not the
public, but surely the pro-abortion pioneers.)
Nowhere was Johnson more
truly counter-cultural (especially in England) than when she
patiently explains that "Laws create cultures of practice. This
[abortion] law has made us so apathetic about unwanted
pregnancies that we now accept abortion as a service that should
be advertised to as many potential consumers as possible."
She adds, tellingly, "What
angers me most is that the commercialisation of women's
reproductive health is being justified in the name of feminism."
At this juncture, the op-ed really picks up steam.
Johnson politely but
firmly insists that "the language of choice around abortion is
patronising." She says, "I don't want laws that protect my right
to have absolute freedom to do whatever I choose with my body. I
want autonomy."
And here is her key
contention: autonomy is not merely the ability to choose among
alternatives. "It means responsibility. It means being treated
like an adult who is expected to know her own desires but is
able to manage them and think beyond them and who feels that she
is part of a society that needs her as much as she needs it."
And that is not having "a
society that treats me with kid gloves: one that offers services
that protect me from the unwanted consequences of my actions but
that does not properly instill in me an understanding that my
actions matter." (I think that falls under the category of cause
and effect.)
In addition to the
importance of telling women the consequences of an abortion for
everyone, Johnson says, "I want to be part of a society that
expects its men and women to behave like adults and to teach the
next generation that love and sex are beautiful but have
consequences young men and women must understand."
Her last line is, "Normalising
abortion is not a good service to women, it's a way of further
ignoring their needs."
A terrific essay that is
well worth your time. It's found at
www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/may/26/abortion-marie-stopes-women.
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