“Justice Loves Babies,” and
You Will Love Darlene and Danielle
Part Two of Two
By Dave Andrusko
Almost exactly a year ago,
“Justice Loves Babies” was lovingly embraced by
our TN&V audience. The flood of responses puts
that interview/book review among the top three
most warmly received editions of all time. Not
hard to understand why.
Written by twin sisters
Darlene and Danielle Wibeto, this pro-life
children’s book is almost as kind and generous
and loving as the young women themselves. Our
readers sensed that, and inundated my inbox with
responses, both when the story appeared in this
space and later when it ran in National Right
to Life News.
(You can order “Justice Loves
Babies” at Amazon.com, or at
http://www.fotb.com/Store/Products/1000011762/All_Products/Books/General/Childrens_Resources/Justice_Loves_Babies.aspx
Last month I renewed
acquaintances with the Azusa Pacific University
graduates at the National Right to Life
Convention in Charlotte. I interviewed them at
their booth and attended their workshop.
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Darlene and
Danielle Wibeto with Dave Andrusko |
It is impossible not to feel
better after talking with the 24-year-olds, so
deep is their faith and so passionate is their
conviction that God gave them this book to help
raise a generation that knows that life is
precious and a gift from the Author of Life.
When I wrote about the 37-page
book last July, I thought I pretty much knew the
full story. Boy, was I mistaken! As miraculous
as the composition (and eventual publishing)
was, that is only part of the story which gives
new meaning to the term “Godincidences.”
The word "abortion" never
appears in their book, beautifully illustrated
by Sarah Atkinson. But the story of a little
African-American boy named Justice, who is
eagerly awaiting the birth of his baby sister,
Destiny, provides children with the raw
materials out of which can come a life-long
commitment to treasure life and to understand
that life begins in a mother's womb.
When we first met Danielle
explained how the idea of writing a children's
book about abortion came to her. She was sitting
in her Children's Literature class at Azusa
Pacific University and they were discussing the
enormous impact children's books can have on
youngsters.
"God put this book on my
heart," Danielle said. She immediately knew not
only the characters and the basic storyline but
also the sure knowledge that Darlene was to
write the book.
They both fasted, Darlene
said. "I woke up from my sleep five nights in a
row and wrote the book." That was September
2005.
The plot is deceptively simple
but powerful. Justice's mother is pregnant and
she tells him that his baby sister, Destiny, "is
getting ready to come out any day now." His dad
is a doctor and will deliver Destiny. "Justice's
dad always tells him that each baby is one of
God's dreams." Before he goes to bed Justice
prays with his parents for Destiny and "while
they pray, Justice puts his hand on Destiny."
That night he has a nightmare
and wakes up crying. He tells his mother that he
dreamt "someone was trying to steal Destiny out
of your belly."
That "someone" was a man
dressed the same way his physician daddy
dresses, Justice explains, but "he took them out
of their bellies and never gave them the chance
to live." Frightened, Justice asks for
reassurance that his mother will not allow
anyone to take Destiny.
She assures him she will
protect Destiny but confirms that "not all
babies get the chance to live like Destiny
does." His mother tells him "never stop praying
for the babies."
Unable to sleep Justice prays
to God, telling him that he loves his little
unborn sister and asks God to "save the babies."
The next morning his dad tells
him it is time. Justice leaps from his bed. "I'm
going to help bring Destiny into the world"! he
says. Soon, "Justice will be holding Destiny."
The Wibetos conclude the book
with a dedication to the parents who have lost a
child to abortion. They told me it is their hope
that the book will "bring healing to parents
who've experienced the pain of abortion."
What I didn’t fully realize
was how it seemed as if the book was destined
never to see the light of day. Darlene and
Danielle are the first to tell you they are not
marketing whizzes, and for the better part of
over two years it seemed as if the book would
never find a publisher or, once it had, would
never roll off the presses.
As I listened to the workshop
tape, more than once a chill ran up and down my
spine. This was the “rest of the story.”
Darlene explained that at a
key juncture the girls were separated (Danielle
had already graduated) and Darlene grew
discouraged.
“There was a moment where I
was about to give up on the whole thing,”
Darlene told the workshop. “I was saying ‘Lord,
Lord, give me one reason to push this book
further because it’s such a burden.’ I’m so
tired of it. I just want to rip it up and throw
it into the ocean. I remember saying this to
him, ‘just give me a reason.’”
At that point, the CD began to
loop. Over and over again, you hear Darlene say,
“it’s such a burden.’ I’m so tired of it. I just
want to rip it up and throw it into the ocean. I
remember saying this to him, ‘just give me a
reason.’”
[Okay, Lord, I said, I get the
message.]
Shortly afterwards, they were
at their parents’ house for Mother’s Day, and
their mother begins to cry. “What’s wrong?,”
they asked.
“She tells us they had never
planned on telling us, but that they had had an
abortion before we were born,” before they were
saved, Darlene said. “When we heard that it
ripped our hearts like a dagger…Our parents had
gone through years and years and years of
pain.”
Although Darlene did not
explicitly make the connection for their
audience, it was clear to see why they now knew
“Justice Loves Babies” needed to be written and
published and distributed.
There was a lengthy series of
“Godincidences” and especially lessons in
timing. Darlene talked about how they found
their illustrator. They knew nothing about Sarah
and she knew nothing about the book.
She arrived an hour late to
their meeting, her little baby in tow. (Her
babysitter had been unable to make it.) When
Sarah read the book, she wept and wept and
quickly agreed to illustrate “Justice Loves
Babies.”
Then there is the fact that
the book was originally scheduled to be printed
07/07/07, but wasn’t. Then it was to be the very
last day of 2007, but it was delayed yet again
by a bomb threat at the printing company.
So when was this book
whose central characters are an African-American
family finally printed? The following month-- to
be exact, the day when the nation commemorated
Dr. Martin Luther King!
“He was a voice” for African
Americans, Darlene said. “We want to be a voice”
for unborn children.
As I listened to the CD, I
marveled at how Darlene read their story with
such a directness and almost trembling urgency
that it pierces your heart. Once again, I was
struck by how these two young women possess a
gift that I have rarely seen surpassed. You
listen to them, and nothing becomes more
important than saving the lives of unborn
babies.
You can order their workshop
CD by calling either 202-378-8842 or
202-626-8809. And, yes, the looping problem was
only in the initial duplication.
And you can order their book
at Amazon.com, or at
http://www.fotb.com/Store/Products/1000011762/All_Products/Books/General/Childrens_Resources/Justice_Loves_Babies.aspx.
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