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KIDS: Confronting the Abortion
of Children with Down Syndrome
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Last August, when Republican
Gov. Sarah Palin of Alaska was introduced to
America as John McCain's running mate, she, in
turn, was introducing America to a person not
seen much in America anymore, a baby with Down
syndrome. As Gov. Palin gave her acceptance
speech at the Republican National Convention and
the cameras panned the audience for the usual
shots of the candidate's family, they caught an
unforgettable scene: the governor's
seven-year-old daughter, Piper, carefully
holding her five-month-old brother, Trig, as she
licked her hand and lovingly smoothed the
infant's hair. The endearing image said loud and
clear that this child was a precious and
cherished member of the Palin family.
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Some members of KIDS gathered at the
NRLC office before
heading out to the March for Life. |
Tragically, the great majority
of babies who are diagnosed with Down syndrome
while still in the womb are never welcomed into
a family. Of those parents who are told their
unborn child has Down syndrome at least 90%
choose to abort the baby.
The enormity of this crisis
led Eileen Haupt and Leticia Velasquez, who both
have daughters with Down syndrome, to work
together to challenge the misinformation that
often leads a mother to abort her child
diagnosed to have Down syndrome. As Haupt said,
"The one thing that prenatal testing cannot tell
you is the unspeakable joy that your child with
Down syndrome will give you."
Calling their endeavor
"KIDS"--for Keep Infants with Down
Syndrome--they organized a group of more than 40
family members and friends of children with Down
syndrome to attend this year's annual March for
Life in Washington, D.C. After the March the
group met with Rep. Cathy McMorris Rodgers of
Washington, who also has a son with Down
syndrome. The KIDS group spent an hour
discussing the policy of the caucus as well as
the state of affairs of advocacy for children
with Down syndrome.
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Some members of KIDS gathered at the
NRLC office before
heading out to the March for Life. |
Rep. Rodgers announced the
formation of the Congressional Down Syndrome
Caucus in May 2008. Its mission is to educate
members of Congress and their staff about Down
syndrome; support legislative activities that
would improve Down syndrome research, education
and treatment; and promote public policies that
would enhance the quality of life for those with
Down syndrome. At the launch of the caucus Dr.
Bill Mobley, a Stanford researcher, explained
that the neuronal circuits in people with Down
syndrome are all present but don't work
properly. For example, the inhibition circuit is
too strong and thus limits learning and memory.
He pointed out that breakthroughs in treating
Down syndrome will transfer to treating similar
diseases in people without Down syndrome.
"We're not just asking what
our country can do for people with Down
syndrome;" Mobley said, "we're asking what
studies of people with Down syndrome can do for
our country and the world."
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Members of KIDS join the January 22
March for Life to s
upport the right to life of children
with Down syndrome.
Photo by Ron Setran of Youth With a
Mission Metro New York. |
Haupt was drawn to the
pro-life movement 10 years ago when her
daughter, Sadie, was born with Down syndrome.
She now serves on the board of the Vermont Right
to Life Committee and is the alternate delegate
from Vermont to the National Right to Life Board
of Directors. On her family's life with Sadie,
Haupt says, "The experience is kind of like
receiving a gift you didn't want and don't want
to open, but ends up being one of the greatest
gifts you've ever received. You can't believe
God would love you that much, and you want to
share the joy with the world, but words fail
you."
Haupt describes Sadie as "a
loving, happy, and confident girl with a great
sense of humor." Like any child, Haupt says,
Sadie has her moods, but they are short-lived.
"She can be very stubborn, which has both
negative and positive implications; she has a
lot of perseverance. She reads and has basic
math skills, and she is a good speller. She has
a great memory."
Velasquez's daughter,
Christina, also has Down syndrome, but enjoys
the life of a typical six-year-old. Christina
attends an inclusive program in her local public
kindergarten and by Thanksgiving Christina had
already surpassed the goals set for her for the
year. Her aide wrote to her parents, "Christina
has truly brought new meaning to my life. I have
learned so much knowing her."
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Melissa and Neil Sloan with their son,
Eddie, were just one of the many
families meeting at the NRLC office
before the March for Life. |
Velasquez notes that raising a
child with Down syndrome has its own challenges,
but also brings its own rewards. "Sometimes [her
other two daughters] complain when I ask them to
help get Christina dressed or take time to help
her wash her hands for dinner because it is more
work raising a child with special needs.
However, I have seen them grow more patient and
tolerant of her mistakes and less critical if
they see someone different than them."
Velasquez writes for several
publications, including the National Catholic
Register and Faith & Family Magazine. Her recent
article published in the NCR titled "Down, Hero
Dad, and Palin" reported on the passage in fall
2008 of the federal Prenatally and Postnatally
Diagnosed Conditions Awareness Act, sponsored by
Sen. Sam Brownback and Sen. Edward Kennedy.
The bill, signed into law by
President George W. Bush, aims to promote
programs to give new or expectant parents the
latest information about Down syndrome or other
disabilities and to give them referrals to
support services. The law also authorizes the
government to help create a national registry to
connect birth parents with people who want to
adopt a child with Down syndrome.
This law is not just feel-good
window dressing but could really help parents
overcome the negative information they are often
given at the time of diagnosis and opt, instead,
for life. A November 9, 2008, Washington Post
article cites a 2005 survey of 1,000 parents of
Down syndrome parents by Brian Skotko, a
resident physician at Children's Hospital
Boston. Skotko reported that the information
mothers received from doctors was often
"incomplete, inaccurate or offensive."
Further, he said, "Rarely was
the option of adoption mentioned" to those
diagnosed prenatally. The bleak outlook
given prospective parents does not match the
day-to-day reality of those raising children
with Down syndrome. According to the National
Association of Down Syndrome, these children
have mild to moderate disability but "it is
important to note that they are more like other
children than they are different." Furthermore,
currently almost 200 people are waiting to adopt
a child with Down syndrome; many of these people
already have experience with special needs
children.
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Rep.
Cathy McMorris Rodgers of Washington
state, who formed the Congressional Down
Syndrome caucus, met with members of
KIDS on January 22.
Photo by Ron Setran of Youth With a
Mission Metro New York. |
It is especially important to
get accurate information to parents at the time
when their child is first diagnosed and the
parents are feeling overwhelmed. Even such a
staunch pro-lifer as Gov. Sarah Palin has
admitted that coming to terms with Trig's
condition when it was diagnosed before he was
born was "very, very challenging." When Trig was
born, however, Gov. Palin's husband Todd said,
"We shouldn't be asking, 'Why us?' We should be
saying, 'Well, why not us?'"
The day of Trig's birth, Gov.
Palin wrote in an e-mail to family and friends:
"Many people will express sympathy, but you
don't want or need that, because Trig will be a
joy…Children are the most precious and promising
ingredient in this mixed-up world…Trig is no
different, except he has one extra chromosome."
Haupt and Velasquez both
believe that there is growing momentum behind
KIDS. "It may be that the lack of knowledge on
the joys of living with a child with Down
syndrome is being overcome recently, thanks to
the candidacy of Sarah Palin, Rep. McMorris
Rodgers and the Congressional Down Syndrome
Caucus, and the grassroots efforts of parents
like ourselves," said Velasquez. "We sense
renewed interest in children with Down syndrome,
as evidenced by the National Institutes of
Health's new guidelines for research and the
increased number of articles out on Down
syndrome which I see every day in my Google
Alerts. They're up threefold since Sarah Palin."
By letting people know about
the reality of raising a Down syndrome child,
Haupt and Velasquez hope KIDS will help persuade
mothers not to abort their unborn babies. "I
thought that special needs children were born to
saintly mothers," said Velasquez, "but now I
know that they make us better people, by the
difficulties which we overcome, and their
example of unconditional love." |