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Do You See What I See?
By Dave Andrusko
Editor's note. With only
minor alterations, this edition
has run as our Christmas Eve
TN&V for years and years. When
it first ran more than a decade
ago, it garnered more response
than any article we've ever run.
I hope our many new TN&V readers
find it a blessing and longtime
readers rediscover its charm. If
you have thoughts, please send
them to
daveandrusko@gmail.com.
Merry Christmas from the
Andruskos.
"Today human relations are
irregulars and seconds at the
closing days of the warehouse
sale of life."
-- From the book, "Social Amnesia," by Russell Jacoby
"O little town of Bethlehem."
-- Traditional Christmas carol
It was late in the afternoon the
Saturday after Thanksgiving. My
wife, Lisa, and I had
established a temporary safe
haven in our kitchen free from
the usual chaos that comes with
the presence of four joyfully
rambunctious children. We'd
somehow managed to wrest free a
few minutes just to read the
paper, enjoy a cup of coffee
together, and chat. It was nice!
For reasons I did not fully
understand at the time, when I
read in our local paper that the
Salvation Army was experiencing
a dramatic shortage in volunteer
bell ringers to man its familiar
red kettles, I was so shocked I
jumped up from the table and
searched out the local number.
Violet, the gentle lady who
answered, mistakenly thought I
was someone inquiring about a
paid position. When I assured
her otherwise, she was so
pathetically grateful for my
willingness to help them help
the poor a wave of shame washed
over me.
How many times, I thought
guiltily, had I brushed past
these magnanimous folks, who
patiently waited for some sign
my heart was a few degrees
warmer than the temperature
outside? How many times had I
been so self-absorbed that these
devoted volunteers simply
blended into the brick facades
behind them?
I was mortified when I recall
that even though I had
occasionally given money, never
once had I emerged from my
self-absorption long enough to
actually "see" them, let alone
grasp what their silent vigil
stood for. Because I had always
looked through them, they never
really existed for me. I hastily
volunteered for several
assignments. (In what was surely
a feeble attempt at expiation, I
made sure that one of them was
on my birthday.)
The moral of this story needn't
be belabored to tenderhearted
pro-lifers.
When our culture "looks" at the
vulnerable, all too often there
is a failure to recognize and
therefore an inability to reach
out in love and compassion. This
is never more true than in our
treatment of the unborn, the
littlest Americans.
However, it wasn't just because
of the news account and the
subsequent phone call that I saw
these kindly souls with new
eyes. I was already predisposed,
if you will, because Christmas
was approaching, to Christians
the celebration of the birth of
the Messiah.
Even those who do not share the
faith honor Jesus for his
unconditional love for widows
and orphans, the sick, and the
social outcast, his loving
admonition to care for the least
among us. This most assuredly
included little children, as
Luke's poignant gospel account
reminds us so beautifully.
Jesus healed out of a deep well
of empathy and compassion. He
restored many whose bodies,
hearts, and souls were weighed
down with terrible physical and
emotional burdens. But he was
also teaching us a timeless
lesson: unless we are willing to
open our eyes, we, too, will be
blind to the hurting around us.
While it is not my intention to
idealize pro-lifers, it would be
false modesty to ignore that
they demonstrate a tremendous
capacity to truly "see" what
others either cannot, or choose
not, to see. It is no accident
that pro-lifers defend unborn
babies. Love and concern for the
downtrodden, the dispossessed,
and the marginalized is what
gives their lives a rich unity
of purpose.
The great hope of the pro-life
movement is that despite our
nation's descents into
inhumanity and indifference, the
self-image of Americans is
deservedly of a good people,
blessed in a unique way. And it
is because Americans are
fundamentally decent people that
the significance of the debate
over partial-birth abortion
cannot be exaggerated.
People needn't be anywhere near
where we are to be virtually
sent reeling. Witnessing even a
simple line drawing of this
abomination can turn opinions
inside out. A pseudo-serious
support for "choice" in the
abstract cannot coexist for very
long with the concrete reality
of this brutal assassination of
helpless children. For many,
many people, head knowledge will
become heart knowledge and
ambivalence will be transformed
into empathy.
Our culture has chosen to
willfully suppress what it
always knew - - that unborn
children are children yet to be
born, a classic example of what
historian Russell Jacoby once
called "social amnesia." But the
monstrous evil that is
partial-birth abortion - - a
procedure that is essentially
indistinguishable from
infanticide - - is shearing away
the excuse people have used from
the time immemorial to explain
away their complicity in evil:
"I didn't know."
And because eyes are being
opened, ears unstopped, and
hearts unshackled, what William
McKenna calls our "unforced
revulsion" at abortion is
finding a wider audience. These
telltale signs suggest we are
cutting through the static of
lies and distortions,
establishing a clear channel to
convey our message of love and
hope for mother and unborn
child.
One day soon, the ethos of
discrimination and brutality
toward the unborn will prove
itself to have been an
aberration, a loathsome interim
ethic. And that glorious day
will come because you have
proven yourselves to be the
antidote to the poison of
inhumanity, indifference, and
injustice.
Let me say, humbly, bless you
for all you have done. |