Goodbye, Dear Friend
In memory of Robert Schindler, Sr.
Part Two of Two
On Saturday, August 29, the world
lost a tremendous man and the right-to-life
movement lost a wonderful friend. Robert
Schindler, Sr., the father of the late Terri
Schindler Schiavo, died from heart failure in
St. Petersburg, Florida. He was 71.
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In 2007, National Right to Life honored
the Schindler family with the Proudly
Pro-Life Award. From left to right,
Alexandra Carr, Bobby Schindler, Mary
Schindler, Congressman Chris Smith,
Suzanne Vitadamo and
Bob Schindler, Sr. |
By all accounts, Bob Schindler
was an ordinary man who never sought anything
more than the happiness that comes with living
the "American dream."
Born and raised in
Philadelphia, he married and together with his
wife, Mary, had three beautiful children. A man
of tremendous character, Bob worked hard to help
support his family.
He took great pride in his
children's accomplishments. Like all of us, he
enjoyed time with family and friends. He was
always quick with a joke. A kind, gentle and
loving soul, Bob shared his faith with his
Terri, Bobby and Suzanne, and instilled in them
respect for the dignity of every human life.
When his oldest daughter,
Terri, collapsed in February 25, 1990, Bob and
Mary put those values and faith into action at
Terri's side. And for 15 years, that's exactly
where they remained - fighting unceasingly to
defend their daughter's right to life. Their
actions gave life to the phrase "unconditional
love." Their heartfelt struggle garnered the
attention of the national and international
media, legislatures, the governor of Florida,
Congress and the President of the United States.
As their case bounced from the
courts to the Florida legislature to the United
States Congress and back again, and as the media
frenzy created a circus-like atmosphere outside
of the hospice where Terri lived, Bob drew
strength from his faith, which had been shaken
to its core, and remained a rock for his wife
and children.
The Schindler's brave struggle
to save Terri's life ended on March 31 2005,
when she died of a court-ordered withdrawal of
food and fluids. For most of us, our fight would
have ended there. But not for Bob. When most
other fathers would shrink back to grieve the
loss of a child, Bob stepped forward.
Indeed, what made Bob
Schindler so extraordinary was his strong desire
to see that what happened to Terri didn't happen
to someone else's daughter or son. The family
created the Terri Schindler Schiavo Foundation
to advocate for other medically dependent and
disabled patients facing denial of their most
fundamental right to life.
Through the Foundation's work,
Bob's legacy of compassion and kindness will
live on.
We were blessed to call him
"friend." And, though we take comfort in knowing
that Bob has been reunited with Terri, Bob's
death makes our pro-life world a little smaller,
and a little sadder.
Memorial contributions may be
made to the Terri Schindler Schiavo Foundation,
5562 Central Avenue, Suite 2, Saint Petersburg,
FL 33707, (727) 490-7603 or at
www.terrisfight.org. |