"My Chance": A Pro-Life Song Not to be Missed
Two of TwoBy Dave Andrusko
Editor's note. I know a lot of people will
want to comment on this. Please write me at
daveandrusko@gmail.com.
Although the talent on display may be
decidedly uneven, my wife and I never miss "American Idol." We
are hooked, because what you see is a vivid reminder that there
are musical diamonds in the rough just waiting to be discovered.
How fitting that I should have my first
exposure to "My Chance," an extraordinarily sensitive and
powerful pro-life song performed by Jaime Thietten, on Tuesday
afternoon, hours before AI. When NRL Convention Director Jacki
Ragan Im-ed me a link, it came with Jacki's highest
commendation. Had Jaime been available, she would have been a
prominent part of NRLC's 2009 national convention in Charlotte,
North Carolina.
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Jaime Thietten |
While she was unfamiliar to us, Jaime is
hardly a newcomer or an unknown. She's been in the music
business for ten years. She came to our attention because a
grassroots pro-lifer saw that "My Chance" had just received the
"Song of the Year" award at this year's Momentum Award
ceremonies in Nashville. (I've subsequently learned that The
Momentum Awards, now in it's 4th year, are the premier award
recognition program for Christian independent artists.)
You don't have to be a music critic to
recognize talent this awesome. Half-way through "My Chance,"
it's clear that Jaime's voice is a gift from God.
You can summarize "My Chance," as you can
anything, in a handful of words. But short does not mean simple.
As pro-lifers we know that "abortion," while only
three-syllables long, packs as much emotional freight as any
word in the English language.
Early in "My Chance" we learn that the woman
has had an abortion which, as an older woman, she grievously
regrets. The lyrics are subtle but you don't need the musical
video to know how deep are her wounds. (You can watch the video
at Jaime's website--www.jtmusic.net.)
When they learned she was pregnant they
decided to name the child "Chance." In anticipation, she buys
him the "cutest shoes." But told they were "too young to raise a
son" and "promised we'd never regret it," she has an abortion.
But now "each day we pray that God will understand."
Heartbroken, she misses "My Chance."
As the video concludes the woman, much older
now, is looking upward, holding the baby shoes she'd purchase lo
those many years before. The title's double meaning is revealed
in the final verses: "We never got the second chance. He was my
one, my only chance. I missed my chance."
There is a youtube video that tells the "Story
Behind the Song" (www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcBmtaeCDNA).
Along with Rick Shadrick and J.T. Tallent, the lyricists, Jaime
discusses the marvelous way the song came together. All three
are solidly pro-life.
At times almost overcome with emotion, Jaime
quietly talks about how she and her husband have tried
unsuccessfully for a decade to have children. "This song has a
little bit of a deeper meaning for me," she says. Jaime is able
to see the situation from both sides--families that desperately
want children but can't, and women who are pregnant "and don't
want their children."
Barely able to speak Jaime says that people
"are under the impression "that if the baby is not wanted, then
it doesn't need to come into the world. And that's not true
because a baby is always wanted. It might not be wanted by you,
but it is going to be wanted by someone else, like me."
As if speaking directly to a young girl who is
deciding whether to have an abortion, Jaime pleads, "Give that
baby a chance. Give me a chance to be a mom. And I think your
life will have much bigger meaning--you can be a hero to this
baby."
You can watch the video itself at
www.jtmusic.net and the
inspirational story behind "My Chance" at
www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcBmtaeCDNA.
Please send your comments to
daveandrusko@gmail.com
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